Seperated -she is with someone, I'm desperate (3)

[Zues126]

See my post on Foolish's thread and what he just went to. You need a more realistic perspective of what's really going on.

Personally the part about DBing I don't like is the idea of adjusting your behavior and monitoring results with a wayward spouse.

I'm all about personal growth. I'm all about being your best, and learning from your failures.

For me, however, I'm not going to chase after a person doing these things. They've gone too far. I didn't feel that way originally. But it isn't right in my book. I love DB site but I think after reading about so many affairs it's easy to downplay it or consider it standard. Or divorce. I don't believe affairs are standard. I don't believe divorce is standard. Those that feel that way, I don't really need close to me.