I went to see my S20 tonight for dinner and to shoot some pool. I told him about W's offer and what I intended to do. He was unhappy about it but could understand why it has to be this way. He told me to make sure I call the shots, and not to let W walk all over me. It's hard to hear him talk about his Mum that way, he's just looking out for me. He's a good son.
I've spoken to all the kids now. My D16 will live with W as already mentioned and my S18 and S13 will live with me (S20 at Uni). They are all welcome to stay with either of us whenever they want. I'm glad they're a little older so there's no issue with contact. W had already spoken with S13 about it and he was undecided, but after talking with me about he, he is staying. I'm so glad they both are.
I wish it didn't have to be this way. I miss W tonight.
Me 40 W 38 T 23 M 21 S21 S19 D16 S14 BD 19/12/2014 D mentioned 27/2/2015. I filed 08/04/2015, D Absolute 04/11/2015