Ya just daily stuff. Nothing serious. Sometimes when she feels good she "unloads" work stories or other stuff on me and gets really talkative...and then seems to pull back. Yesterday she showed me baby pictures of her friend and told me the birth story^^. I'm always trying to be a good listener and validate. She doesn't tell me too much tho. We don't see that often.
She isn't asking too much about my well being tho. Maybe "how was 'event x'?". If I keep my answers very short, she gets short in her things too. If I am easy going and tell her some she seems ok and more talkative too. As long as I keep it 'short enough'.
At night we are both home after 7-8 half the week. She's watching "Friends" on Netflix on the couch. I usually stay at the kitchen table and eat and watch too and sometime we both laugh if the show is funny. Then we go to bed and say goodnight.
So all that pretty much sums up my interactions with W. Guess some people here would give a lot for this little bit so I can't complain. And it isn't affecting me being with her under a roof. I'm not nervous around her anymore and she doesn't seem pissed that I'm there. She was when I was controlling. Right now I just keep it simple and on the short side.
I think I'm doing ok in these interactions!?
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15