Thank you for your kind words. As an LBS i do what i do, and look at other's sitches and think why would the wayward do what they do?
RDs wife, RPP husband, Little boyfriend and Jans wife. Why? I see good loving parents, spouses and friends. At other times I see faults or failures and think small changes will make all the difference. Occasionally I see narcs or cruel behaviour and shudder for those caught up in it. In all each does what they do.
Who knows and really none of it makes sense, not really, to those of us with sanity, not in an A. But somehow it makes sense to the wayward, the rationale works and justification is there. I wonder about it and move on. H has a mind that I will never understand.
So give the waywards space, let H do what he choses to do. I do what I do because that makes sense to me. I am sure what I do is against Sandi rules, presents etc. So H had a present to make my life more peaceful and his birthday party was my thank you to my staff for year end as well as H birthday.
H liked his card.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 03/06/1511:07 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
