Something I have learned from reading and a TV show about sexual needs is that after a hard day, HD men NEED to mak love but women usually do NOT want to make love in that situation. Women need to empty their minds prior to making love, which may mean just sitting and listening to them. They are looking for empathy. So suggesting ML to relieve tension is NOT a good thing for a woman, it is for you though. SO maybe next time, just listen to her, but do not make any suggestions unless you are asked.
