Just caught up with recent developments in your sitch Old Dog.

Hugs to you.

I think Toots' advice to take care of yourself right now is good. Maybe spending the night at your mums would be best. You don't need to tell W any reason why you go away for the night. Or you can make up an excuse. If it would be best for your mental health right now, and avoid you interacting with W in a way you would regret, then I think you should do it. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you right now, and how hard it would be to interact with W in the frame of mind you must be in.

You can come escape here for some pizza and chianti if you like grin


Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.