Yap. That's danger #1: expectations.

I'm curious about starting conversations. I don't want to seem pursuing, but it actually works to engage her sometimes if the timing is right. Haven't done it much but it breaks the ice once in a while. W seems to really mirror my behaviour.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15