So you never did say... did d18 stay or go back to Boston? Strange about the visitation but I suppose she has told all of her sisters different tales of woe and other drama stories.
I am glad to hear that you will be able to help s13. He really needs some stability. Heck, you all do. Thinking of you all during this difficult time.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory