I just got home and within half an hour I'm distraught because I just came across his birthday card which say she fulfils him emotionally, physical and intelectually and valentines card which is full of all the affirmative things that I was so crap at and mentions also her sexually.

So they are definately having a full on physical affair with pet names and everything. He even calls her wife. And there's even a 'bond' which when presented to the other they have to get naked.

This is really really hard now how do i get through this? I'm wondering if I should just go to my mums right now.

Last edited by Old Dog; 03/06/15 09:37 PM.
M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner