Complex No. 6 - The turtle and the rabbit

[Complex]

Very true. We are all active like crazy. But it's a) for ourselves and b) to subconciously change our WAS mind. I wouldn't say its tricking them, it's more like getting them to see the person again that they actually married and of course we gotta become that person again too.
I feel the reward of DBing is absolutely awesome on a personal level and if it works it's going to be extremely rewarding for the M too.
That's why I do this. Bc of the reward for myself and the people I love.

The feeling that came up with my confidence though is that I should do MORE. Which can completely go wrong bc you think you got it this time, but your spouse doesn't see anything differently. That's why we have to continue to just DB and nothing else, do your thing to a point where we are certain that WAS starts having second thoughts. If you are a good observer you might be able to pick this up, then act cautiously bc WAS will get second thoughts on the second thoughts and pull back.
But that is my goal. To get to the point where I see W starting to have thought process. Then it's meaning business
I'm just afraid of physical separation. That'll make things harder. I'm blessed right now.