I ran at BD. I think it's the fight or flee response that kicks in. I still get a flee response now when H and I are in touch....

Sorry to hijack, but Starsky, if you get chance to stop by my thread & advise, I'd be grateful. Things are at a critical place between H and me.

Sorry Susana - hijack over!

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus