is this the time for me to tell him I don't want us to D and that I hope we can be together again?? I haven't said this since last Autumn and have been acting 'as if.'
I think not.
You are in the middle of negotiating your divorce. Why raise the white flag and tell him in essence you can walk all over me and that is OK.
Would you do that in the middle of a business transaction? That is what this is, just business, try to keep all the emotion out of it, IMHO.
