Sorry, i've been checking the OLD post daily, and FINALLY realized today it might be locked, and Voila, here you and Sandi are!
I feel for you, but Sandi is 100% right. Without fully knowing it, you're practicing the 180, and standing up for yourself and your values. This is likely new to your WW, so on top of the swinging emotions, she's also dealing with you no longer being someone she can manipulate as she could before.
Stay your course, she needs to hit a rock bottom point where she's real with herself. You can't do this, and each time you try, and when you share your feelings, thats when she gets all tweaked about the "ups and downs" right?
Take a step back sometime, and re-read your posts, it helps to gain some perspective, as well as give you some re-inforced good advice you can brush up on, or just feel validated you're doing.
Thankful to be back on the threads again...
M: 10 years, T: 12 years Me: 41, WAW: 38 SS:19, D:18, SD:7
