I notice many postings wishing your H would do or say things differently. Thing is, he is who he is. I used to be the same way and was constantly disappointed. Have you read the love language book? It was really helpful for me. People show love in many different ways, it's learning to see them that is key. I also have experienced my H wanting me to be someone I am not. It's frustrating and hurtful.
In my next relationship, whomever it may be with, my goal will be:
Don't focus on what you are getting from your relationship, focus on what you are giving.
Think about it
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-