V,

You are amazing. I had so much trouble getting W presents from my kids, let alone from myself. Your personal character really shines through in acts like that. Unless H is a bafoon, he has to be noticing the extreme good nature and caring that you project even in the face of all his spew. I'm sure he has times his mind is quiet enough to see that

M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)