And I do have a nagging doubt - what if he wanted us to R but presumes I don't? There have been hints of it 'stars' as you say. It would be just like H to 'accept it must be over' based on what he did and try and be decent about it. So I do feel I will need to address that at some point - if only to reassure myself - but then I worry it may be anti DB and undo some good work already done.
Toots - I've thought about that multiple times. Along with the idea that I wanted to make sure I did everything I could. But at the end of the day that is still pursuing and if it isn't something H wants it will undo some of the work you have done. It seems like a catch 22 in my mind, but it is still the LRT way.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015