Mozza, I'm not on the boards enough anymore to stay with one poster for long. And I would say the same for a lot of the "vets" out there.
Just believe though, that you all, the ones posting here, are becoming those vets that you covet to post to you. You guys are the ones in the trenches, and doing the hard work.
Part of this journey, also, is regaining that trust that has been ripped from us. Trusting that we are doing the correct things, either for a relationship, or our children, most importantly...
For ourselves, and trusting IN ourselves, that we are not the evil person that we have been accused of.
YOU all are becoming those vets, and know your situation better than anyone here. You have been journaling, and monitoring your progress.
Is what you are doing, working ??
Typically, if you can step back, and let any situation "rest" for the 48 hour rule, the picture becomes amazingly clearer..
