I often think - whatever would our S's make of it if they knew our simple email had been redrafted 5 times with input from friends all over the world!
I'm sure they'd think we were manipulative and devious and they were right to leave.
Hey OD - I think of this too. I carefully guard this secret. It's really the only thing that I hide from W.
I've never put so much thought into every single word that I say (and I do worry that she'll find out that the words are not always my own - but the intention is). The help and care here is invaluable.
Take Care OD!
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015