No one can tell you your M is over, not H or any other creepy choir member.
It is over for mustard when she says it is and if she changes her mind she does.
Please Msd get out of H sandbox, do what you do because you want to do it. let H be H and work through his stuff in his own time. Let H be what he wants to be and Msd be who she wants to be. You loved this H for his differences to you and this was how you related to each other. Be free to love that part of H and his difference and allow H respect for those. H seems to be hanging on in there too.
This is confidential to Mustard and you do not have to disclose to H if you do not want to. It is personal. Hold your counsel.
Has Msd looked after her interests and sought up to date legal advice? Please Msd look after yourself and your children.
As for creepy choir drawers, if it were me then I would say STOP and tell him there will be consequences if he does not. You sense this guy is a predator, trust your instinct. If it smells to you like a rotten fish then it most probably is.
You went GAL Msd, please much more, give yourself a break, get some space with your sitch. Hot housing is emotionally draining.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
