Hairdog, you crack me up I was much too serious after my long post.
Quote: A credit card receipt from Bob's House o' Bondage for a set of handcuffs, a leather mask, and a cattle prod.
ooooooh honey, all that for me? You... you.. shouldn't have
Seriously, Dave about the list keep it very simple. One thing thats helped me tons since I'm touch, we aim for 30 min of snuggle cuddle time a night. Thats our baseline and goal, but it isn't set in stone some days are missed, sometimes its 10 min. Most of it's naked together time, but its spent more in massage with no expectations except that we touch, mostly he touches me and that we are together uninterupted. This is probably the single most thing thats kept me from becoming a WAW. That and him brushing, braiding and playing with my hair. Maybe she can come up with a list of non sexual touch she can to more regularly that will fill your love tank. I know nothing beats hot passionate sex, but you need something to help keep you saner. Scalp massage. You naked, her dressed - massage - objective muscle count, game of name and touch that muscle or bone? foot rub? just a few thoughts. Also I think 2 compliments, when she gets your attention a day is more than reasonable. (of course I'm still trying for this one) Can she make you a list of all the things she loves about you that you could then read often to help yourself feel loved?
I was much too serious after my long post.
honey, all that for me? 
You... you.. shouldn't have 
