H and I in touch by text today.

H - asked for the number of our decorator to start getting the house ready for sale.
T - replied with number. Let me know if you want us to work out plans re the house

Then I thought I should tell him about my position before he arranges decorating..

T - I need to let you know, I've been advised to sell only if we do it as part of dividing all our assets.

H- doesn't mind if we work up a plan to divide things. Maybe better sooner rather than later. I know you may want to buy a place. How do you want us to do it? Would you like me to suggest something?

T - Yes, if you want to suggest, that would be good.

H - Should be home by lunch and will send suggestion over this pm. He's sure we can agree something.

All sounds pretty positive on the financial/asset front, which is good. H certainly sounds pleasant and amenable. I'll wait and see what he suggests. Still no R talk for us. Presume I shouldn't be initiating anything. I'll just respond to what he suggests. Any thoughts welcome. T x


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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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