yet another hopeless tale

[Bing]

The rewriting has really made me feel hopeless as well. It dims any glimmer of hope you thought you had in the relationship. But take it from me, as I've messed up plenty. At least in my experience, you get smacked with the rewriting (and other pitfalls) when you initiate conversation about the R with WW. For those in our situations, it's best to back way off and at all cost stop initiating attempted heart to hearts or R/M talk. WW only use this to defend their decisions and fuel their A.

Good luck. Welcome to the board but sorry for your circumstances. Hang in there. And learn from me - take it slow. Speak with genuine actions, not words. You can do it sadpand!