So just met with the W. She messaged me after work asking if we could just meet at her bar. I said no and suggested a Mexican restaurant. I arrived after her and when I walked in I could tell she was a bit surprised as she hadn't seen me in weeks and I have since cut my beard down and happened to be dressed really cool today. She didn't say anything but I could tell she was happy with how I looked. I caught her once really checking me out, I didn't say anything but it was obvious as she was eyeballing me pretty good and when I looked at her she had a big smile on her face.
Anyway, just talked about work and kids and her surgery. Told her i had been out last night with work friends that were in town for mtgs this week. She asked what else I'd been up to besides work and I just said I had been keeping pretty busy but gave her no details which was very unlike me. I was very confident and did alot of listening and didn't prompt the conversation like I used to.
We only stayed an hour but she called me honey once and I didn't act like I heard her. As soon as we got up from the table she put her arm around mine all the way to her car. I didn't not allow it but didn't let it be obvious to me. At her car I told her to have a good night, she hugged me for a very long time and different than any hug she had given me in months all of which I had previously initiated.
I walked confidently to my truck and she got in her car and drove off. I don't want to make anything of this but I didn't come across as needy at all and I could tell she was the one happy to see me, not the other way around. I'm a real catch and maybe she realizes that...idk.
Anyway, just wanted to update on the encounter as it was the first time we saw each other in probably 6 weeks...idk don't even know for sure. I could tell she was thinking about me when she left, she should be. I was happy to see her too but I didn't want her to think I was sting to see her and think I did good in that regard.
Off to meet a work friend again that is still in town. For being so worried and stressed all day I have to say I feel pretty good about myself right about now.
A couple other things I realized and forgot to mention. One of the waitresses walked by our table 2 or 3 times and took a good look at me each time. W noticed and although didn't say anything she took a long glance at the waitress.
Also, I mentioned it was going to be warmer this weekend and she said she was happy it was and needed to get out and rake the yard. I could swear she was tearing up but I didn't act like I noticed.
Saying these things makes me feel a little guilty in a way hut also makes me feel much stronger than I had previously. I'm not just anybody and maybe she realizes that.
Last edited by vdubber; 03/06/1503:43 AM.
M: 44 W: 45 Married 26 Together 28 D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7 S: 12/2013, seperate houses OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time
