Holy crap I need to work on my validation skills. I realized that tonight during a tough conversation ( In person--a rarity!). I kept catching myself saying "yes, but. .." or defending myself or arguing a point or throwing up a score card. On the bright side, I practiced accepting an apology gracefully and ending a conflict with some humor. So I'll focus on that positive.
Marathon. Saving myself, and my relationship with my daughter's father as we co-parent her. My goal is not to save marriage. First of all, my marriage is over. Second of all, I am not all sure that I have any interest in being married to WAH.
