Claire I had a really interesting lunch yesterday. It was with a friend I haven't known very long, but she is very intuitive and just seems to know things about people. It's odd, actually. Anyway, she was talking about how H and I didn't match-up now, how we didn't seem to belong together, but that she could see how we belonged together 27 years ago. It was interesting to think of it that way. That is used to be right and now it's not. And my IC says sort of the same thing. That H and I were very good at conducting business and raising kids together, but he's not what I need for these upcoming years. When you think of it like that, it's easier to take. Our choices at the time we picked our Hs were valid. But who they are now is not necessarily the best for us going forward. I can buy into that.



"Don't look back, you aren't going that way"