We are moving along, doing okay. W seemed to get upset with me easily lately, imagining she knew what I was thinking and/or feeling. The problem is that she was wrong. She thinks I'm mad and only concerned with me and us, when that is not the case. Her daughter is having trouble with her boyfriend, is greatly upset, and is coming into town for a visit with W. W is worried about her daughter and is stressed because of the tension still between them over me. I remained calm, and only asked necessary questions to effectively communicate and have a clear understanding of what is going on. I (calmly) told W that she was wrong about what I am thinking and feeling, that I feel she has been rather hard on me, and she is not doing what our MC told us to do. To her great credit, we turned the evening around and had a good time together. The rest of that evening and the next, she was relaxed, fun and affectionate. Very nice.


Me: 53, Wife: 49
Separated November 24, 2014
I think we are piecing. She wants to stay married/committed & LAT (Living Apart, Together)