Those questions look a bit like interrogation. Perhaps a better approach would be to have some random discussions about your dreams and aspirations. That can be a bonding moment for couples. Then from that point, one delve a bit further into some specifics.
I have just finished a book called Intellectual Foreplay:Questions for Lovers & Lovers To Be by Eve Eschner Hogan with Steven Hogan. I would start with you first...do those exercises by yourself.
At some point, it might be useful to bring H into this process.
