Our last ML was last Friday night. Prior to that it was a couple of weeks ago. We were together on V-day too. So far this year, we've ML more than we did last year. She's on board and it might sound very optimistic and that I should be grateful but there's a burning in my belly that we're going to have more troubles.
Like you, my family has virtually no divorce though my wife's parents were. I feel like that would be a big issue if it ever came down to it.
I hope I didn't give the impression that I'm on the edge of being a WAH. It would kill me to hurt my D6 and if things get a little better, like ML every couple of weeks, I will not even consider it, but if things revert to where they were and remain that way, it's a different story. Also, I can't afford to D. There's not enough in our budget to afford a place for me to sleep except under an overpass.