Hi Cali. I always follow but never add much because you have some great vets helping you out.

I just want to say I am impressed with your detachments. W is always calling out to you in rough times. I can relate and agree with you to step in where S is involved, but keep it just about him, as you have been doing well. This is a great chance for her to experiience taking care of herself, even when she is in pain, as it's her choice. The way I see it, part of being a spouse is taking care of each other. No spouse, no care. I'm sure ? OM doesn't want to be bothered by this. Anyone who would get involved with a married person, with a child, is no prize of a person. You are so above him. Just saying as I remember a post a while ago about comparing yourself to him and it got me all riled up but I didn't get a chance to post.

Anyway, You are doing really good, stay the course.


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-