Yes, I agree with Drew - best to get the idea that you can 'get' her to do anything right out of your head. Relinquish control - step away.

But the good news is, there are things you can control - you! And that's where your focus needs to be right now....

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus