Thank you so much Sandi for your insight. I already agreed to meet her after work tonight. Maybe I should have declined jut felt I can't avoid her forever. We didn't talk for so long that all of her reaching out and then anger and then nice again is really tweaking my brain.

You did tell me exactly this. Am I ok to meet and just sit and listen?

It's really hard not to hope it means something more but I know I need to keep expectations out of it as they will bury me. I assume OM is still in picture but was very surprised she was home earlier the last 2 nighta. Probably means nothing.

I'm very stressed right now.

M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time