I told her that is fine but I don't even want her back since she is really becoming such an insensitive liar. So for the entire game she kept her sleeve over her hand and we talked normal even a little flirtatious from that point on.
It's times like this that makes me want to reach through the computer to strangle the LBH! You break down to go into a long tell all explanation (which can often sound like more excuses) of why you are in a bad mood (which she did not care nor was really interested...like you took it.). She was redirecting the focus off herself, onto you being in a bad attitude. Remember, it was immediately after she said something was her fault, that she quickly changed to blaming your bad attitude? Learn to keep your mouth shut about your feelings as long as she is wayward. It just causes you to appear as weak and whiny.
As much as you wish to see her showing real concern for you, everything about her has changed to some degree.
During your explanation, you just couldn't resist making a dig about the rings, could you? Do you realize it knocked off a lot of attraction points when you told her? Think about a movie or actor who you see as a alpha type that you like. Can you imagine how he would react in the same situation? Mine would have said, "Frankly my dear............".
I don't know if this is two separate times (games) you have referred to about her keeping her sleeve pulled over her hand, or you are repeating the same incident. Doesn't it insult your intelligence that she knows that you know she isn't wearing her rings......and she's acting as if she is in jr. high by trying to cover her hand? This is suppose to be an educated, professional career person, right? And how do you respond? You act flirtatious???
There can be occasions where a friendly, flirtatious time at the game might not be completely bonkers, but this timing wasn't right b/c of what had just gone down.
If you have another occasion at a game to see your D14 play, you can act charming, fun, a little flirtatious......simply to show off your stuff, but not any sexual hints in your talking to her. Don't misunderstand what I mean by "flirtatious". You don't want her........you just want to the guy she wished she could have. Your message should show that you are a great catch, but you can't be caught easily. .
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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