What your XW wrote sounds to me like she saw you more as a father figure than a mate.
Yes, this is true (reason 7-A, or is it reason 5-C? I forget), she said herself a few times during all this, that when we met I was the father she "should have had" and that it was unhealthy for her now... and I see that. Maybe more importantly, I see now that it was also unhealthy for me.
How's the job going, Matt? Kicking butt yet?
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