Do you think you are doing all you can? Are you implementing change in any of the areas she identified?
No, I don't think so. I'm going to move out of this crappy apartment. That would address the following persistent concerns:
* W has to act as "mommy" (in her own words) and push me to do anything with my life * me always sticking to the same thing * not providing for family in ways other than monetary
This place really blows. It's noisy, seedy surroundings, D can't really live in the second bedroom for various reasons, and the bathroom ceiling collapsed on me once when I was showering. W and I both complained a lot about it, but even though I was showing some initiative with moving out last year, I was indecisive and didn't carry through.
Me:31 W:31 D:6 T: 9/2001 M: 1/2009 W unhappy: 6/14 W moves to parents: 10/14 W wants D (angry): 12/14 W okay w/ S: 2/15 W wants D (calm): 2/15 W gets new job/place: 3/15 W admits PA, suggests MC: 8/15
