Makes sense. The idea that you have accepted what is going on and are moving on. She will feel like she is loosing you and the mysteriousness of your life will impact her.
Do you think you are doing all you can? Are you implementing change in any of the areas she identified?
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015