Yeah what I found out yesterday is that she is having contact with him. I did not make an issue out of it as I did not want to start a fight, I wanted her to talk and tell me some things, and this is what I heard from her. She claims just not in the house as I requested, which I'm certain is a lie, she's just hiding it better. She's not ending it. It's a real slap to the face yesterday. A wake up call that it's going to be incredibly difficult to think I can save R/M at this point. The only thing I can think of at this point is divorce or separate get her out and make her deal with it. Then sit back and see what happens.


Me 41 Wife 38
T20 M13
S8 D3
Bomb 1/26/15
A confirmed 2/19/15