Is it really to late? Who knows....

[mahhhty]

Trying to see what else I can add to my week!

What a great perspective! You are doing so many positive things! You are definitely living your changes and it's great to see.

I still see the word "limbo" kicking around in your posts. Do you really think you are in limbo? I think you use it to describe your situation, in which, you are waiting for him to identify that he wants to work on the relationship or wants to leave. I don't think you are in limbo. Your life and your identity are getting stronger. You are making changes which have enabled more time with him. Him being more considerate about movies, dates or tournaments with the kids, etc. Change is happening.