Starsky...... where are you? Might need you in here soon!!!!
When wife brings it up, validate anything that is true. Say you don't want a divorce but a lot has happened. Trust needs to be earned now. You need some things from her to even think about rebuilding a life with her. 1. No contact with OM, and no contact means NO CONTACT. So find a new AA group. 2. No contact letter/e-mail/text sent right before your very eyes that you approve of 3. Full transparency (and you need some intel on this)
Why, it looks like you don't need me at all! This is perfect! ^^^
