W continuing A with OM from AA meetings

[twinmom]

Starsky...... where are you? Might need you in here soon!!!!

When wife brings it up, validate anything that is true. Say you don't want a divorce but a lot has happened. Trust needs to be earned now. You need some things from her to even think about rebuilding a life with her.
1. No contact with OM, and no contact means NO CONTACT. So find a new AA group.
2. No contact letter/e-mail/text sent right before your very eyes that you approve of
3. Full transparency (and you need some intel on this)