Wife left me three weeks ago!

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A say day today:

I woke up this morning and noticed that I wasn't wearing my wedding ring. I had been thinking about whether to wear it or not recently considering my situation. However, the reason I don't have it on is not marriage related.

I have lost around 50lbs over the course of the last year. The stress involved in our separation has meant that in the last few weeks 20 of those 50lbs have come off. This had made my wedding ring quite loose. It did fall off a few days ago when I was at MIL's house dropping the kids off. At that time I noticed it fall off and picked it up off the floor. It would appear that the same thing has happened again, only this time I don't know where and when. I went bowling with the kids last night and had it on then. I seem to remember having it on still when I came home later in the evening, but I don't know for sure. I have had a good look all over the house in the usual places where I might leave it, if say I was having a shower etc. It's not in any of them. So it would appear that it has fallen off somewhere outside. It does seem like a sign. I've hardly taken it off since we got married and within a month of things going pear shaped I've lost it. I am devastated, not just from a financial point of view, because it was worth quite a bit of money, but also of course from a sentimental point of view. Whatever happens in the future regarding my W and M, I did plan on having that ring forever. I rarely lose anything and so to lose my wedding ring is sickening for me. I'm gutted. Maybe it will turn up in some unexpected place but I'm not holding my breathe.