Thanks for the post, it's helped me see the other side of where I am at this moment. Reading through what you've learned, I see similar things in my sitch. Slowly but Surely each one of them I see as a step. Now, I realize that I don't want W back if this who she 'is' from this point forward. Also understand the immense changes she would need to do. I see just feeling that way is boosting my confidence and this week, I saw for the first time that she seemed jealous that my attitude and mood is getting better while her's seems to be collapsing.
Best of luck to ya as you move on. Also, keep posting as I'm learning and living vicariously through you in your new experiences.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
