MLC W Dates, Part 7

[kat727]

I don't think most of the left behind spices will ever get an answer. All I wanted to know was that our marriage meant something.

We do so much work on ourselves while they are away, hopefully for our own sanity and not for them. We expect that they will see the errors of their ways and change themselves. They really don't, they don't think they did anything wrong, what work is to be done??

So if they do come back, there is often a lot of anger that finally boils up on our end. Nothing easy peassy about putting the marriage back together again. The only relationships that I have seen make it are the ones where the left behind spouse totally dropped the rope and were moving on. The odds aren't great then either but again, after nearly seven years on here it is what I have seen.

No reason to not have hope, just a reason to live for you and your kids and move on.

kat