One day I will learn. I just guess it won't be tonight. So my W and I met at my D14 game tonight. Well the team is going to states so my wife comes in all hot about the coach not telling them about the travel arrangements and she is going to find the AD. I tried to explain to her how the process works and that the SSAC makes those travel arrangements not the school. Well she gets all short with me so I argued back. She then said to me why do I have an attitude tonight. This is where I messed up. I told her about a phone call I got from a good friend of mine right before leaving the house. There is an old friend of ours that we had that we both always said that we did not knowing our business because he is nothing but a trouble maker. Well the phone call I got was my friend calling to tell me the troublemaker was going around trying to find out our story. So I told my wife and she said how is it her fault. I said because we live in a small town and you had to take your wedding ring off the other day. She said well everything that is happening with the divorce and all is not her fault. I told her that is fine but I don't even want her back since she is really becoming such an insensitive liar. So for the entire game she kept her sleeve over her hand and we talked normal even a little flirtatious from that point on.

Now she is having cycle problems but she refuses to go to the Dr.s. She is having her cycle like every two months, but refuses to go the Dr.s for it. Her mom went through menopause in her early 30's. So it does have me concerned. Even though I am suppose to be detaching I did text her about a half hour ago just to make sure she isn't in as much pain from her cramps as she was at the game. She said she took medicine and a shower and was feeling better. I left the conversation at that.


Me: 36
W: 36
D: 14
T: 18 (05/1997)
M: 16 (05/1999)
BD: 7/23/15
Separation 01/2015
D mentioned and started 02/2015
D filed 3/2015
OM confirmed 3/30/15