Seperated, she is with someone - I'm desperate (2)

[vdubber]

So I have to say all of the advice I get on this board about how WAS knows you inside and out and can control and manipulate your emotions as well as thoroughly confuse you is absolutely correct.
I met with tax consultant today at work as I have to file taxes in another country due to the amount of time I spent there on work last year. I had asked W at least 2 weeks ago to provide me with her W2 and mortgage interest statement. She said ok, then she didn't know what she was looking for, then she would find it.

I messaged her today to remind her that I needed it. She said ok and then asked if I could come over at 630 and help her look for it. At the end of the work day I told her i had plans but could another night that worked for us both. This seemed to piss her off as she said no thank you and that she would find it and drop it off to S18.

She then went on to say she was sore from her skin cancer surgery on her nose and was just reaching out as she wanted to see me.

I responded that I had previous plans to have dinner with out of town guests from work. She then told me how I always put work before her and she guesses she made the right choice to leave.

I tried to validate by saying I can imagine how she felt that way for many years and that I had made a concerted effort to put my family first the last several years. She said yes in theory but in reality no. I said I did not realize she had wanted to see me, that I thought she just couldn't find the documents, to which I got a "I invited you over, what did you think?"

Anyway, I just indicated I could understand why she had felt the way she did and why she had hesitance trusting I had changed.

What does this all mean? Why was she reaching out? Why is she home at 630 all of a sudden? I want to see her most definitely but I don't want to be weak and needy. Honestly in the past 2 years I had offered to quit my job, move, etc...I put my family first. Is she toying with me now?