Thanks for explaining that Wonka... It is hard to trust her at this point, but your perspective (from inside the mind of someone who has gone through MLC) does help.
I do want to believe the friendliness is sincere... I do want to believe that the tight hugs last Tuesday after our heart-to-heart and on Monday after our talk were authentic and sincere... I do want to believe that the tears are sincere... I do want to believe that when she tells me she does love me (but isn't "in love" with me) that it is real and sincere...
But I've seen her admit to others in writing that at least in the recent past she has faked a lot of what she's said and how she's acted towards me... And I've heard her on Skype or on the phone with OW saying really horrible things about me... And I've seen her lie to her own mother (repeatedly over the years) very convincingly...
So a part of me hopes everything is sincere, but another part of doesn't trust her at all. At least not right now...
I guess you could say that my W's MLC has put me into a place of heightened paranoia...
Last edited by Jer2911; 03/05/1501:56 AM.
Me 48, Her 50 (Same-Sex Couple) 3 Children Together: 9.5 years before BD BD: Week of 10/27/14 ExW started EA w OW 9/2014 ExW married OW 12/2015
