I have never used one either. I'm a forum virgin!!

I am still confused on my wife's statement when she was throwing a fit last Sunday night after I told her about my boundary with her job.
" I wish you would have changed years ago instead of now. Now I am the bad person"?????

Me:44
EXW 44
Wonderful Children
M11, T14
BD 6/14
OM Confirmed
Divorce Final 2/25/16
"It works if you work it!"