I went out on a couple of dates after she moved out, she had been dating for a few weeks prior. I realized quickly I wasn't ready to do so, so I quit doing it.

After talking to some mutual friends, they informed me that she isn't "dating" anyone right now, but is talking to a few people. She also is aware of me not dating or talking to anyone at this point. I think my biggest issue is that I work from home, our home, so I am here all day long. It's like a constant reminder of her. I put away pictures, nick-nacks, etc that would remind me of her, but it's just this place in general. I have been fighting the urge for 2-3 days to call her and see how she is (which would probably cause a fight). I keep attempting to stick to the 37 rules, the 180 and am GAL, but it's just hard to do, even harder to GAL when I have my kids here with me and it's too cold to go out and do much.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016