KGirl - letting the past go

[SunnyB]

It's hard to know who is within your "league" or not. I've never really had to think about it or worry about it until now. Hmm...

I had to respond to the "out of our league" comment. I'm older than you are and that comment still makes an appearance in all age groups I refer to it as "out punting your coverage." Honestly, I think many people secretly feel that way, when in reality, no one is truly in *leagues*.

And I'm older than both of you and I still feel this way. There was a guy on the sailboat that was attractive and we had several nice conversations during the day. He even expressed interest in me. But I felt like we were in different "leagues", not that one of us was better than the other, but he was different than my comfort zone. When I think about what kind of guy I'm looking for, I have to admit fantasy man looks a lot like my H and my friends Hs. A certain education level, a certain income level, certain hobbies, etc. But it's a box, a limitation. And I'm trying to change my perspective, just like GB said.