We are both prety bad about being passive agressive. W was "mockingly" staring into my eyes after the discussion we had last night...fearing that I would get upset if she didn't make quality eye contact with me. It was completely in a humorous, playful way and she knows she safe to do stuff like that because I'm pretty easy going. I laughed a few times but and in a smiling, laughing way I said "you are totally belittling my feelings". She said "oh come on...I'm just playing with you".