i am wondering if a lot of this has to do with the time of year, almost to end of winter. My XW TMed me on Sunday asking if she have to dog for the evening since I was taking our daughters out to dinner. The level of communication has also increased. I don't know if it means anything at all so I don't read much into it. I did bring the dog down and she spent afternoon and evening with her and brushed her coat and did some pampering. I do wonder if this is a bit of the reconnecting they talk about.
LT
I am not sure, last year around this time was the first breakup with OM ... just around V-day ... however they quickly patched that up. But I recall we spent some time as a family and she was all about revisiting places that had meaning, the church where we were married and all that ... at the time I had no idea the EA went PA.
Currently I am not so sure about the reconnecting thing (Possible but does not feel that way .... I will research that a bit), she stated several times yesterday during the phone call that she "was trying" .. that someone told her to keep an open mind and the communication open, I asked who and she quickly said it didn't matter (I am guessing BIL3 by the wording she used.) She is asking me things recently because she can not remember. I am of course guarded and that makes my PMA perception drop a bit even though I am really doing well and her stuff is not having the effect on me it once did. Feels like watching a fish in the aquarium starting to float upside down and you just hope it will right itself knowing you can not help it.
